Feeling low?

Divorce and Questions? Here's Where to Go!

Hi there! It’s completely normal to feel sad, angry, or confused when your parents are getting divorced. You might worry about what will change. Will you stay in the same house? What will happen with birthdays or holidays? It may feel like everything is suddenly different. But remember this: your parents aren’t divorcing you. Your dad will always be your dad, and your mom will always be your mom. They still love you, even if they are no longer together.

You don’t have to go through this alone. The municipality of Aalsmeer works with various organizations that want to help you. They’ll listen to your story and understand how difficult this time can be.

Talk to Someone Who Understands

Villa Pinedo

Do you feel like no one understands what you’re going through? At Villa Pinedo, you can talk to a Buddy. This is someone who has experienced the same situation as you. You can ask any questions, like: How do I deal with living in two houses? or What do I do if my parents argue in front of me? Talking together can help you feel less alone.

Practical Information About Divorce

Would you like to know more about how divorce works? Visit the municipality of Aalsmeer’s page. You’ll find answers to questions like: What happens with custody? or How do parents make agreements about money and housing?

If Things Aren’t Going Well at Home

Sometimes a divorce can be even harder, especially if there are a lot of arguments or violence. It’s very important to seek help in these situations:

• Domestic Violence: Visit the domestic violence page to find information on where to go for help.
• Veilig Thuis (Safe at Home): Call or chat with Veilig Thuis if you don’t feel safe. They’ll listen and give advice. Everything stays confidential.

Support for Your Future

At Levvel, you can talk about your worries. They can help you with things like:

• How to honestly tell your parents what you need.
• How to find time for yourself when everything feels chaotic.

Do you want to create a plan for your future? With Eigen Plan, you can work with a professional to list your questions and concerns. This can help you regain control over the changes in your life.

You’re Not Alone

It’s okay to share your feelings or ask questions. At @ease, you can drop by without an appointment for someone to listen. It’s free and safe. Don’t hesitate to reach out. There are people who want to support you, and you’re stronger than you think.